Introduction:
The word in which one lives today is one that
has evolved into a tremendous net of communication
and exchange processes of various kinds. Technological
progress has aided this process abundantly, and
has had an immense impact on the way that life
is led today.
Along with the manner in which technology has
quickened the pace at which human being live today,
it is the freedom that man is provided in spite
of him being governed by legalities. This is worth
asserting because of the fact that laws have prevented
people in primitive times from exercising their
free will. However, largely due to democratic
principles, people are free to express themselves
in whatever they choose, as long as they do not
harm anyone.
On the basis of this, one may assert that there
are also commodities that have been developed
in correspondence with free will. To be more specific,
this refers to the free will to love; people express
their love in several ways, and they choose different
commodities to do so. For example, one may choose
to send a loved one a gift/parcel which might
be quite costly. Others might prefer to be simpler,
and send their loved ones cards.
Having mentioned cards, it must be asserted that
greeting cards, especially love greeting cards,
have become a viable commodity. This is because
it is a product that could hardly ever go out
of the market; it is driven by one’s free
will, and is easily affordable to persons living
in the remotest of areas. In considering the advantages
of sending loved ones cards, it is interesting
to make note of the contents of cards. In order
to do so, one card in particular is selected and
analyzed, which will reveal specifically who it
is intended for.
Analysis: To begin with, ‘love’ is
an emotion that can be expressed in different
ways. However, it is an emotion that can be defined
in several different ways too; ‘love’
being a fluid term, is characterized by various
actions. Some assert that the ‘love’
that one experiences with one’s lover is
totally different compared to the love that one
would experience with his or her parents. In a
manner of speaking, it must be asserted that these
two types of ‘love’ as examples are
different. However, essentially they are one and
the same. This is because of the notion that ‘love’
is proportionate to caring for an individual.
Take into consideration the manner in which one
cares for his or parents, children and spouse;
the feeling is one and the same (Akin, 2003. 291p).
Of course, in the case of a spouse or lover, this
emotion is enhanced, and transcends into a secondary
stage in which there are unique experiences, such
as the kinds of physical contact that people make.
Having categorized this stage in love as a ‘secondary
stage’, it must also be taken into consideration
that there are also individuals who desire this
secondary stage, and even base their feelings
for someone they have recently met on these ‘secondary’
emotions (Augsburger, 1973, 176p). However, in
spite of this irregular approach, greeting cards
and other love-packages cater to them; there are
no restrictions, as this is no violation of law
in most parts of the world. Having somewhat defined
the emotion of love and its relevance to different
relationships, it is easier to determine what
kind of love a greeting card caters to.
Consider illustration 1 while discussing the
emotion of love; it apparently says a great deal,
and could apply to any stage of love. However,
it is passive in the sense that it isn’t
as conventional as some cards are. This is because
it does not have all the color that cards usually
have on them. For instance, ‘red’
is common with love greeting cards; this is because
of the fact that it is an attractive color. The
color ‘red’ is one that may even suggest
infatuation, and this is because of the fact that
it far too much of a conventional color associated
with love. It must be asserted there here that
this color is often a misleading one because it
aids in confusing the real meaning of love.
Infatuation cannot really be placed on the same
platform as love; when one is infatuated, s/he
has no idea of what his role as a lover is, and
s/he does not really have an idea about love in
the practical sense, as in living with someone
and looking after him or her. However, in this
card, it can be observed that the ideas a very
different from the conventional idea of love (Benoît,
1955, 308p).
In addition to the color selection for this card
being different, the characters too are different;
they are normally human, and they are usually
in physical contact with each other. However,
in this card (illustration 1), it can be observed
that the ideas are delicate; the designer has
done a wonderful job of giving the card some deeper
significance.
Instead of using conventional human characters,
the designer has brilliantly selected too pets,
cats; one is bigger than the other, and is also
different in its coloring and marking. The bigger
cat is black and white, while the smaller one
is brown and white. The difference in the sizes
of the cats symbolizes that one is the protector
or male. It also must be noted that since there
is a difference in the color of the cats, one
might assert that these colors symbolize two different
and unique personalities. However, these two different
personalities are ones that are brought together
because they love each other, symbolizing that
the sender is aware of these differences, but
still loves the receiver.
So, this card is probably more suitable from
a male to give to a female. It is evident that
the designer also wanted this particular card
to demonstrate tenderness, which is why s/he has
selected cats as the two characters. The designer
has also shown them (the cats) lying close together
with their eyes closed, in order to symbolize
the faith they have in each other. Being tender
creatures, these cats stand for the tenderness
that love is supposed to bring into the lives
of those in love.
In addition to the closeness that is symbolized
in this card, it is also worth mentioning what
the sender is implying. If one observes this card
carefully, the bigger, black-and-white cat has
a cat-collar around his neck. This means that
the cat is a domesticated one, and is used to
returning home; these kinds of cats usually have
their homes on their minds no matter how far they
wander. By sending this card, a sender would be
telling his lover/wife that no matter where he
is, his mind is on her. This reason adds up with
the one presented earlier regarding the differences
in personality. It must be asserted here that
the designer has intended this mixture in order
to enhance the message through symbolism; the
sender would automatically be telling his wife/lover
that though they are very different people they
still love each other and want to be together
for the rest of their lives.
This element of a life-long commitment is reinforced
by the words on this card. These words are very
simple, but they are deep; they are deep in the
sense that they are direct and arouse one’s
emotions. The words on this card are as follows
“Happy Birthday to the one I will love my
whole life” (Cats Snuggling, 2003). These
words are simple and direct; one cannot get any
other ideas from such words. However, since this
card is available from a website that provides
an option for customizing it, one can always have
his own words added on. However, one would have
to be careful not to tamper with the intended
meaning of the message in this card; this is something
that can easily happen.
Conclusion: The message sent by one lover to
another in illustration 1 is one that is plain
and simple. The designer obviously intended it
to be this way; s/he has made it all look very
simple, but has also added a great significance
in it through each ingredient. The words and images
are well selected because in spite of their simplicity,
the message is brilliant. The words selected are
not conventional in anyway, and neither are the
images. This is what really gives this happy birthday
or love-greeting card more value. Certainly, an
individual in search of a card that can tap into
his lover’s deepest emotions would certainly
go for this card. This is because this card reflects
all sincerity one would want his lover to feel,
and thus present before her the essence of his
love.